Take charge of your happiness


There are times when some people pisses us off. 

We keep overthinking, criticising them in our mind.

But have you thought, is this helping you anyway?

Does this solve the problem?

Clearly, no.


Instead, just throw that thought out of your mind.

Talk to them when it's the right time.

But for now, be happy, be grateful for everything you've got.

Live your day the way you'ld have if this didn't happen.

Why to ruin your day because of someone else?


Not everyone get to see the next morning, respect that opportunity.

Keep your calm. Go ahead.

YOU'LL ROCK❤️


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